Comments on: Urgent Girl help Needed i need to be ale to do something by tomorrow?

By: john

john — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 02:18:34 +0000

yea, ur being way too overbearing. Next time something like this happens, apoligize once and let it be. It wouldn’t have been so bad if you had just apologized once for throwing the balls at her, but you have made it a lot worse. When you text and call over and over again girls get kind of freaked out, as they should be because that’s what stalkers do. So you need to leave this girl alone, a relationship is totally out of the question right now, what you should be doing is waiting for her to feel comfortable to talk to you again. If that happens, then you show her that you can be trusted and you have matured since your last hiccup (no matter how long it takes). Until you can get through those two steps, asking her out or being your girlfriend are not in the cards right now.

By: surfergirl75

surfergirl75 — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 02:18:34 +0000

Take it down a notch.
Give her some space, and give her time to calm down about it. Girls will usually stay mad, or even pretend to still be mad for awhile just to see how you react…if she sees that you don’t care that she’s pissed at you, it will intrigue her. As a girl, I hate it when guys ignore me, but it really does work. Ignore her for awhile and if you have any chance she’ll at least start talking to you again.

By: j26eh

j26eh — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 02:18:34 +0000

Alright what type of person gets that pissed off about a paper ball. Anyway if you really do want to be with her that much your going to have to back off for a couple days. Girls can be EXTREMELY finicky about often the stupidest things (no offense to any girls here). I get the feeling she might like you also but again back off for a little while. buying her something might work but might not ive pissed off a girl and got her something and she only half accepted it. This next part will probably seal the deal either way though so be careful in using it because it might push her farther away. You can pretend to not be affected by it anymore. She will be expecting you to be all over her apologizing, just don’t. This will either make her angrier or make her realize that it really was no big deal after all its a paper ball. Im sure that if you think it through you’ll be fine.

By: babygirl012

babygirl012 — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 02:18:34 +0000

Woah man, kinda creepy..
why would you throw a paper ball at her in the first place?
and twice..?
mature up. you don’t know what love is.

By: =]

=] — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 02:18:34 +0000

ok u messed up by throwing it twice and by telling her u love her right after u told her u liked her that was too fast…when a girl gets mad at u say sorry and mean it if she doesnt accept and still is mad let her have some space and ask her again like in aday or two and if she still says no then i would keep on asking….and no dont buy her a gift yet ur gonna seem like a weirdo and she gonna be scared if you…just try talking to her in person not over phone where she can hang up…and talk to when shes alone not with her friends..good luck=]