Urgent Girl help Needed i need to be ale to do something by tomorrow?
heres the situation... i like this girl tooooo much to get over her she makes my day and she's the reason i look forward to school. I KNOW I LOVE HER. i know she is kinda attracted to me b/c we've had some moments and then i mess everything up by doing something stupid. this time i really screwed up by throwing a paper ball at her in the mourning. and she got mad then i threw another one and she got really pissed off. then i realized how mad she was when she stoped talking to me. i realized how stupid i was and i apologized like a million times then i realized that she was a girl so i told her i would make it up to her so this weekend that just passed i texted her and she didnt reply so i texted her again and she still didnt reply then i called her i told her it was me then she hung up! then i text her telling her how sorry i was and how nice ive always been to hershe said she just doesnt feel like talking to me then i called her back (she sounded pissed) and i apologized and told her good night. then i texted her telling her i liked her for the first time. then the next mourning i texted her saying that i love her and begging her for one chance just to go out with her. she then said stop texting me and delete her number out of my phone and that she would be my girl cause im rude (cause i threw the paper ball) i said im sorry and when else have i ever been rude she then saidcaue you threw it twice and that was rude. i know it was rude and im sorry but...i love her and dont wanna give her up. i didnt get a chance to text back cause my mom saw my grades on the internet and saw some F's (alot) so she took my phone and i never got a chance to text back.
heres my circumstance
1. I LOVE HER so dont put get over it b/c thats not answering my question
2. I WANT HER TO BE MY GF
3. ITS NOT A SEX TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP (im not trying to have sex just want her to be my gf)
what should i DO PLZ help me i have to go to school tomorrow and see her. PLEASE HELP ME ! ! !
BTW: she likes betty boop ALOT (should i buy her something)
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yea, ur being way too overbearing. Next time something like this happens, apoligize once and let it be. It wouldn’t have been so bad if you had just apologized once for throwing the balls at her, but you have made it a lot worse. When you text and call over and over again girls get kind of freaked out, as they should be because that’s what stalkers do. So you need to leave this girl alone, a relationship is totally out of the question right now, what you should be doing is waiting for her to feel comfortable to talk to you again. If that happens, then you show her that you can be trusted and you have matured since your last hiccup (no matter how long it takes). Until you can get through those two steps, asking her out or being your girlfriend are not in the cards right now.
Take it down a notch.
Give her some space, and give her time to calm down about it. Girls will usually stay mad, or even pretend to still be mad for awhile just to see how you react…if she sees that you don’t care that she’s pissed at you, it will intrigue her. As a girl, I hate it when guys ignore me, but it really does work. Ignore her for awhile and if you have any chance she’ll at least start talking to you again.
Alright what type of person gets that pissed off about a paper ball. Anyway if you really do want to be with her that much your going to have to back off for a couple days. Girls can be EXTREMELY finicky about often the stupidest things (no offense to any girls here). I get the feeling she might like you also but again back off for a little while. buying her something might work but might not ive pissed off a girl and got her something and she only half accepted it. This next part will probably seal the deal either way though so be careful in using it because it might push her farther away. You can pretend to not be affected by it anymore. She will be expecting you to be all over her apologizing, just don’t. This will either make her angrier or make her realize that it really was no big deal after all its a paper ball. Im sure that if you think it through you’ll be fine.
Woah man, kinda creepy..
why would you throw a paper ball at her in the first place?
and twice..?
mature up. you don’t know what love is.
ok u messed up by throwing it twice and by telling her u love her right after u told her u liked her that was too fast…when a girl gets mad at u say sorry and mean it if she doesnt accept and still is mad let her have some space and ask her again like in aday or two and if she still says no then i would keep on asking….and no dont buy her a gift yet ur gonna seem like a weirdo and she gonna be scared if you…just try talking to her in person not over phone where she can hang up…and talk to when shes alone not with her friends..good luck=]
I think you should try being a little less annoying.Girls hate it when boys wont stop bothering them.This is wat you should do:
1:Lay off a little give her sometime.If you don’t wanna do that then do something you know will blow her mind.
2:Act sad.Girls can hold grudges for a long time.Soften her up by finding her weakness and use it to make her realize that ur a great guy.
3:BE CONFIDENT:If ur willing to fight for a girl,than ur so on the right track.Girls love poems and songs TRY IT!
Play it cool, man… lay off. You practically stalked her after you made her mad (and, evidently, after you realized she was a girl, lol) to say sorry. Then went all "I love you" on her ass. She not only had paper balls thrown at her, she was badgered by you all weekend. Back off, give it some time, and approach this differently.
its not that you caused her physical hurt…you hurt her feelings. stop being a "boy" and showing affection by hitting, punching, throwing things at, etc…just tell her how you feel and WHY you feel that way. tell her all the things that you love about her…if you want a gift a simple one such as a bunch of wild flowers would be a sweet gesture, but not needed…just be honest.
Seriously, you love this girl? Hold off on the love, it might creep her out. Tell her that you really are very sorry, and hate that you hurt her feelings. That you would love to take her out to a movie, and make it up to her, if she’s up to it. Tell her you can go as friends, you need to work on your friendship before you try to develop anything more.
Don’t buy her anything!! Secondly, I dont know if you really know what love is. I think the word you’re looking for is infactuation. Heres another tip, if she doesn’t answer the texts or phone calls maybe you’re over doing it, stop texting and calling her so much (it freaks girls out). Just lay low for awhile and see what happens.
OK..this is way too much drama and you sound very young plus you are being incredibly pushy with her. You need to back off. You don’t love her….this is not love…it is called obsession. BIG difference. Stop texting and calling her. Leave her alone. You need to give her some space to breathe here. After a while, try to be friends. Ask her to a movie or something. But right now, don’t do anything. You could end up scaring her. If she was my kid and getting texts and calls from you, I’d be worried you were going to hurt my kid. Leave her alone and calm down,
OMG you need to leave her alone!!! You are being totally stalker and psycho! She’s probably scared! You are pushing it too far. If you really like her then leave her alone! When she’s ready to talk to you she will. You need to knock it off or she may never talk to you again! Chill out, concentrate on your grades ( obviously you need to!), and don’t buy her anything!
just leave her alone for now and be as polite as you can work on your grades and do like your mom says. the girl will a change in you
What don’t you understand about the word "no" ? Sorry to be blunt but you sound like a spoiled child saying "I love her so don’t say to get over it." Just because you think you love her doesn’t mean she has to be with you. See? You don’t get whatever you want in life and people aren’t made to bend to your whims.
What are you, 12? Seriously. Hold off on the proclamations of LOVE until you’re old enough to stop throwing paper balls at people.
You might have blown this one - 1 the paper ball thing wasn’t a good move. 2 - the borderline stalking her to try and apologize until she behaves the way you want…. that’s even worse. At this point there is nothing that you can do but back off and hope she comes around. Sorry I don’t have better advice.